Posted to fidelity as thats who I have and they told me to post here. A few other quips of info. My employer does allow it as its an option in my plan to withdraw. I dont want to press charges and I know emotionally this is very abusive but I know its not as extreme as it could’ve been thats why i got out before it got bad. Im in a super bad place financially and i have been trying my best to catch up and do better but i just keep falling further behind. We just now are about to be eligible to sign the papers and i have no idea how this is gonna go.
Just wondering me and my wife recently split due to her controlling behavior. She’s threatened many times for alimony, and I wound up giving her a lot of my belongings. She’s called me and texted me so many times and strung me along to try to get her way in the divorce that ultimately, I needed therspy appointments and medication for anxiety. Does this qualify as mental “abuse” im currently living in an apartment, negative on bills because im paying back all these companies for all the stuff I needed to buy and dont have money for rent or school. Im out of student loans and owe my employer a advanced paycheck and my landlord money. I finally got my bills in order but cant seem to get out of this hole. I took a hardship loan to pay my bills but im still over 3k behind. My credit sucks, I have no cards and no o e is offering me a loan. I need help bad.
